I will be very short and to the point as to what am looking for in a man,Am looking for someone who will be honest with themself ,to begin with, because if you could start with the man in the mirror i think thats the start of something beautiful,so let's do our best before we start something new, lets's end the old ,be true to yourself .With honesty there is respect, love ,understanding ,happyness, commitment and the list goes on ,so be true to yourself and others........... :]