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47 year old man
Ventura, California, United States

Seeking:
women 30-45
Within:
50 Miles of Ventura, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Someone asked the Dalai Lama what surprises him most. His response was: "Man, because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived."

I am passionate about what I do and the people I care for. I'm adventurous, relaxed, patient, a fun, giving companion, and a loving father of two girls in college. Family and friends are by far the most important to me.

I want to invest my time and energies in the woman whose company I crave and who I can count on. Someone who is true, and has become thoughtful about who they are and what is going on in the world around them, who wants to rendezvous for romantic lunches and walks, sails and flights, nights out, spontaneous excursions and speaks their mind well. Someone whose teacher put on their report card that they play well with others.

Overall I'm fit. I like to run and bike, and play many sports. I can't enjoy golf more than 3 or 4 holes because I get bored and start thinking about what else I could be doing, so I never play it. I don't like to watch sports much, and I don't have a "team." I also don't have a "show." I haven't had cable or satellite tv for years, but I like movies. I volunteer and try to improve myself and abilities regularly. For example, last year I helped my girls get scuba certified and we went on many dives together. This September we are all getting our skydiving certification. Next summer we've arranged to get our helicopter certifications. I'm an avid skiier, but I have a snowboard that I have not yet mastered. 3 years of icy conditions at Mammoth only resulted in my backside hurting and the occassional curse as I hauled the board back to the chalet to get my skiis. I've been a pilot since I was 19. I'm not nerdy, but I appreciate new technology and recently made and installed an entire new panel with dual radios, dual gps's and an integrated two axis WAAS enabled autopilot in my aircraft, and now I'm about to do something similar for my 53' Catamaran in preparation to sail it down thru the Panama Canal into the Carribean. If you know what WAAS means. . .you are probably an instrument pilot and that would be great, but it's not a criteria for me. I'd end up teaching my companion to fly if she wanted to if she didn't know how already. I'm a licensed maritime Captain, and occassionally teach sailing but more often teach new crew on the Cat.

I'm an aviation and criminal defense lawyer. I play guitar, a little keyboard and drums, and am working on a few ukulele songs. I like to cook and have guests for dinner. I'm optimisitc and really enjoy the life that I am getting the chance to live. I don't need to share that with someone, but I want to share that with a remarkable woman, and have the opportunity to experience her world too.

My girls are both in College so I now live alone. They are funny, playful, smart, balanced and unmaterialistic. My oldest is studying writing and film and recently worked on It's Always Sunny in Philidelphia after writing an episode. My youngest just finished her first year of pre-med on the Dean's list on her way to becoming a surgeon she hopes. There is no drama. We are very close, open, and fun loving.

I've been single for many years. I have had several long relationships. I'm a one woman man. I've found it's rare. . so rare. . to find the right person, so I'm trying to increase my chances by posting this in the hopes that the right woman will find this map to me.

Interests:
Camping, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Cycling, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Horses
Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I sail often and race. I fly several times almost every week in my own planes, and enjoy aerobatics. I scuba dive, sea kayak, hike, like to travel and tend to range up and down the West Coast. Being w/friends and family is my favorite time.

Favorite hot spots:

Depends: Mammoth at Christmas, my sailboat in the summer, my plane in the mornings, a good restaurant when I'm hungry, a comfortable place to sit when I'm talking to someone about something important. The ends of fingers when I'm holding hands. lips

Favorite things:

I enjoy a good conversation, music, wind rushing past me, learning something new, seeing someone I want to be with arrive, the wonder of atmospheric water, a good movie, lightning storms, the smell of fresh bread, warm covers in cold weather, etc

Last read:

A police report on a murder.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
5'2" (157cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
I'll tell you later
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Legal
No preference

I have my own private practice. I thoroughly enjoy my work. I was made for it.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
PhD / Post Doctoral

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