For clarity, and to save you and I some time and effort, I will not respond to anyone without a photo posted for a variety of reasons.That said, variety is the spice of life and balance is the goal. I enjoy virtually any sport-except golf, basically because it frustrates me to the brink of insanity----not a place i want to visit very often... I'm independent, strong-willed, and analytical. Im also outgoing, generous, compassionate, and passionate. I believe in empowering others - not enabling them and I can only change myself - no one else. I try not to sweat the small stuff at this point in life and I've learned to follow my gut and intuition far more than I used to since many things are felt before they are seen. If you want to have a positive self esteem do esteemable things. If you feel sad- do something nice for someone else...you will feel better instantly.
I am attracted to those who laugh easily, think deeply, love courageously, and anger slowly. Honesty, integrity, intelligence, a sense of humor (or at least a sense of mine), and an open mind - and you may just be my kind of guy. Hmmm...that was alot- but its honest.... I know Im picky but I think you should be too. Im not into the Harley thing (I like my bone structure, the ability to walk in an upright position, and breathing on my own, just like it is - thank you very much), tattoos, or piercings (although a tattoo isnt necessarily a deal breaker - it depends on what and why... I prefer the outdoorsy type and if you adore your dog who adores you back - you just got 2 points.... I dont "need" a relationship to live a fullfilling life but it would also be awesome to want to be with someone who laughs at your silly jokes, knows what youre thinking simply by looking in your eyes, has the ability to both challenge and awaken you, and you clearly enhance the life of each other. Physical attraction will catch my eye but whats inside will keep my eyes on you and only you.
Having common interests, beliefs, and values is clearly important. Maintaining a sound mind, body and spirit is something I would hope to share with someone I care about. I love variety in life...the arts, music, dance, tennis, volleyball, nature, biking, hiking, sports, just hanging out and watching a movie after we cook dinner together - or I would prefer you cook and I do dishes but hey..I'm open to helping- thats just the kinda' girl I am..., or beating you at backgammon just one more time....:) I like to try new things - as long as pain or death does not appear likely. I have a live and let live philosophy in life (unless you hurt a child, animal, woman, elderly person etc - I really dont like bully's) . You can't rush love or fake compatibility - you wont find it......it will find you.