OK how to start? Funny or serious? Pensive or philosophical?
I guess, if you are reading this you have been in the same predicament, why am I here? What happened to destiny, spontaneous attraction and romance!? This is all new to me- usually I leave things to chance encounters but is getting harder to do. To be honest, I do not like to spend time in front of the computer screen emailing back and forth. But, not liking the bar scene/club culture with their casual encounters and between my work and travel, it is getting harder meeting someone special that I find interesting and who in turn is interested in me .
So here it goes-I'm an incurable romantic, can't help myself. I still believe in and look for love as well as a great friendship built on mutual trust, affection and caring. Great back-rubs, snuggling, watching the gorgeous sunsets in the evening, etc. I’m respectful, and have a good sense of humor. I am about to finish my PhD, so there's at least something between the ears. I know how to dress! I'm the kind of man who would take pleasure to open doors for a woman and will pull back your chair before sitting at dinner. I am one of a few men who like to shop. I will go to any store your heart desires. I may even pick out something for you to try on. I tend to get lost in a woman's eyes during conversation. I want to see that look in her eye...watch her lose all control and get totally lost in each other. Beauty is both internal and external and a woman who is comfortable with herself is an amazing treasure. A quiet confidence. A sarcastic wit. A gentle touch. A gleam in the eye that just makes you wonder. A woman who wants to feel almost shaky because it has been two weeks since we last met, even for a dark movie theater in the middle of the day. What I am seeking is a woman who knows what she wants and does not hesitate to go and get it. I believe it is best not to put any limitations on this upfront and to go with the flow to see how things evolve. Sexy is all about attitude.
In summary: boring? hardly: predictable? sometimes; creature of habit? never! True friend? absolutely. Good and caring person ? without a doubt. I'm the guy that runs across the street when someone gets hurt. Great lover/partner? that- you'll have to find out for yourself....
What have I learned in my life? True connections are infrequent but do happen. The grass is never greener on the other side- may just turn out to be Astroturf -artificial and without fragrance. All things are better when shared with someone you a crazy about. And men and women simply do not think the same, so work around it!
Sooo, I'm looking for a woman that can put me in my place, with a tender and kind sense of humor, an independent spirit, intelligence, passion, great sensuality, a love for life and adventure. One that can be spontaneous and still is open to new experiences. Oh, yes, she has to be crazy about me.
OK, OK, I'm not asking for that much! This is MATCH.com after all-we can ask for the moon! but who knows....
Hope we all find what we are looking for. Good Luck!
