I don’t seek a perfect person or even believe that any exist, but I would like to meet a man who is perfect for me: smart, funny, interesting, and kind. I’m looking for an intimate, passionate and mutually-supportive relationship.
I’m kind, passionate, fair, rational and funny. A man who can make me laugh is extremely attractive to me. I’m told a lot that I’m an excellent communicator and see many sides to most things. My empathy and curiosity make me a good listener. I care deeply about social justice. I can admit when I’m wrong; I can say I’m sorry; and I am the least moody person you’ll ever meet. I enjoy finding the absurdity in situations and enjoy self-deprecating humor. I am very close with my young nieces and nephews so I understand and adore kids. I also believe that if you are a father that your children should come first in your life and that you shouldn't have to explain that to a significant other.
I’m not into a lot of hobbies. I don’t find cooking enjoyable or interesting. I care infinitely more about with whom I’m spending time, rather than about what we’re doing. I enjoy the treadmill and yoga; I love going out to eat; and I love good conversation. I’m interested in pop culture and I’m a huge news junkie. I enjoy my alone time, but I strive for balance in all ways. I watch crap reality TV and I enjoy making fun of it the next day with friends. I tend to eat the same things day after day. I am not a morning person. Are you still reading? Did I mention that I’m honest? And speaking of honesty, can we please stipulate here that we all like the beach, we like children, and all of the other obvious things? Your ability to wear a pair of jeans and a tuxedo doesn't really do much for me. Is this a thing now? Are there people who can't do this?
We are not going to be a match if you: have a bad temper, are conservative, don't have the time in your life to develop a meaningful relationship, don't enjoy good conversation, are into religion, or can't give and receive feedback nicely. If you want to argue or shut down if we disagree on some minor, innocuous thing then I'm not for you. I'm never going to make you guess what I think or how I feel in some bizarre FemaleSpeak, "Well if you don't know how I feel then I'm certainly not going to tell you!" I can tell you what I want, like, or need in a very, very nice, non-critical way. I believe relationships take effort...but it shouldn't feel too much like work.
But ... if you would like to be with a woman who has a lot to give, is open, curious, effusive, passionate, kind, communicative, caring, irreverent, self-deprecatingly funny, sarcastic, and who wants to go the extra mile to be good to you - and if you are kind, smart and funny ... then we may just be a perfect match after all.