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36 year old woman
Fairport, New York, United States

Seeking:
men 27-39
Within:
35 Miles of Fairport, New York, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

When I care for someone I care whole-heartedly and often make the mistake of wearing my heart on my sleeve. I am a hopeless romantic and am looking for the same. I'm looking for someone to go to sleep with and wake up beside. Someone to spend my time with and that wants to spend his time with me. I am ultimately looking for my best friend, someone I can be myself with, be comfortable enough to speak freely with without fear of judgment.

I love to laugh and am a sucker for a man who can make it happen so humor is both a must and a plus!!! A killer smile is also a HUGE bonus. (Nice pearly white teeth are my most important (slightly shallow) physical feature requirement)

I'm looking for someone educated... brains and humor go a heck of a lot further with me than good looks or how big your biceps are...

The four MUST HAVE traits I am looking for that are essential: a good communicator, communication is key in any healthy relationship; he must be loyal, I want to know that the person I give my heart to can be trusted with it; he should be honest, honesty is what makes a relationship healthy, even the not-so-good honesty makes you stronger; romantic, everyone has their own style of romance but it is a necessity to keep things alive... I believe the little things say the most, I'm simple, I don't need a dozen flowers, one would make me just as happy.

Two things I have learned along the way: It is a person's flaws you must learn to fall in love with and NO relationship is perfect and no matter how many times there is a problem, there IS a way to work it out if you are willing to take the time.

Please take care of yourself, you don't have to be a star athlete or look like a UFC fighter (although not opposed to this one), but you DO need to be in decent shape. Recreational drug users push on, I have no need for anyone with those type of issues in my life, I'm looking for someone to build with and maybe some day start a family with.

Lastly, everyone has baggage of some sort, but if you plan to bring your ex into your next relationship, you are probably not the guy for me. I expect to be Number 1 in my guy's life and intend to offer the same to him. Guys into the bar scene, you are not for me. I will NOT partake in the nightlife bc you find your fun at the bottom of a bottle. I like to throw back beers on occasion, but Id rather have friends over for dinner and drinks or go out with friends for dinner and drinks -- not an all-night drinking marathon. So, if you spend 50% (or more) of your life drinking it away, if you have health problems and run from them rather than work your butt off to try and fix them, if you have the mindset that whoever you end up with should expect to live in the town you choose, the house you want, have the wedding of your liking, don't know a thing about compromise and don't know what it means to give 100% to a relationship, then PLEASE, DO NOT CONTACT ME. I'm looking for someone who has the ability to compromise and the capability to understand selflessness and I have zero intention of settling for anything less...

Now that I've probably cut out 75% of match.com, if you are interested in a grown-up relationship and wanna take a chance, then please, DO feel free to contact me :)

If you don't have a picture posted, please be sure to send one :) Happy hunting!!!

Oh and please, NO smokers.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Playing cards, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Bowling, Cycling, Running, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I have an unruly mutt whom I completely adore and I ended up adopting the most kick boxer that I had been fostering... so much for 'fostering' eh???

Political views:
Conservative
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
State University of New York College of Technology at Alfred, Alfred, NY
For fun:

I like to bake but can't cook to save my life and would probably end up taking your's :/ museums, movies, shopping, bar for the occasional drink, sporting events, zoo. i kayaked this summer for the first time & LOVED it. Biking, hiking, being outside

Favorite hot spots:

I'm not big into the bar/club scene. I'm a bit of a homebody. I like any place outdoors to go walking, especially if it's dog friendly


Traveled some, not as much as I'd like: Cayman Islands, Vegas, CO, Puerto Rico. Would love to see Nova Scotia

Favorite things:

Favorite color, white, yellow and any shade of brown. I have an obsession with gerber daisies.
I LOVE to eat, I'm a picky eater but LOVE food. I often wonder why I'm not obese w how much I eat. Foods: pizza, steak, dark chocolate & pb. lgt beer/wine

Last read:

The Company She Keeps. The Secret. One for the Money. Two for the Dough. Assholes Finish First, it's the type of book that makes u wanna pee yourself :) No Easy Day.

TV: Dexter, Castle, Revenge, Nashville, my soap (I am a girl ya know)

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type:
About average
About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Green
Blue, Brown, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark blonde
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Bald
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military
No preference

Civil Servant -- employed within the court system

Income:
I'll tell you later
$35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Latino / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian

50% Irish, 50% Italian = 100% Perfect ;)

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Associates degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have a degree in Court Reporting (yes, the lady typing on the little machine in the courtroom). I freelanced for eleven years at jails, correctional facilities, fed det ctr, but gave it up for employment within the NYS court system (unrelated)

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