i have lived most of my life being single, i was always under the impression that i could be alone and did not need anyone-Of course, thefact that i think people should be in a serious relationship only if they love each other and not merely for companionship has been a set back for me-the older i get, the more i think there may be a common ground somewhere in there-i am basically looking to fall in love, and willing to meet some poeple to see if it will happen-i work alot, and love time alone, so that sometimes becomes problematic..But, if i do find that special someone-they would be the recipient of all my affections :)
Obviously, the first step is just general attraction, so i must be attracted to something about you. whether looks, quirks, attitude, what ever it may be..which i would not know until i saw them-seems complicated, but really not at all.
after the initial attraction, there would have to be some commonalities in lifestyle-especially if there are long term plans.
SO i am putting it out there once more to see if it can happen for us. Wish us luck..Cheers