Im just on here trying to meet new people. If something else comes out of it, that would be good. The one thing that is a deal breaker for me that is someone who is not family oriented. I do not have any kids but would like to have one or two one day. I perfer a man with no kids but if he has one and he apart of the child's life I can say that would be ok. He has to be able to carry on an intelligent conversation.