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davidj406

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44 year old man
New York, New York, United States

Seeking:
women 23-47
Within:
50 Miles of New York, New York, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Update Nov 22: The below was written with tongue held firmly in cheek. All of it is true however and i't meant to be funny and lite. If you don't find it funny? No worries at all. . .but I'm certainly not "bitter." I Most women emailing me seem to get this and say "thanks for the laugh" even if they're not interested. You're welcome. :)

Update July 30th. You can email me if:

**You DON'T do the following: (This is absolutely word for word.) Email me and ask me this, "tell me more about yourself. What is a week and weekends like for you these days? Or tell me anything you'd like to share about yourself. hope your day is going great!"

Ladies. This is stuff meant for a face to face chat or a phone call. Or even (to a very limited extent. . .texting.) But ok. I went along and wrote a few sentences. Then I ask for a number. Gave mine first. I got hers. But then I also got, at 11:56pm on a Sunday night, "hi dave, this week is very busy. i can chat a little next sunday, if you'd like to give me a call. my number is xxx. enjoy the week!"

You've. Got. To. Be. Kidding.

This person is an artist/performer. Are you serious right now? I work my butt off during the week--sometimes 70-80 hours running my own business. Yet I can squeeze something in! It's Sunday night. You give a guy your number. And yet. . you actually expect him to wait an entire week to call and/or text "a little?"

I'm truly hoping this strikes most of you reading this as quite odd and I'm telling you. . .whether you choose to contact me or not. . .don't do this. It makes no sense.

**You're NOT 44 and the first line in your profile wasn't, "i don't know why i'm here or what i'm looking for i guess i was curious to know what's out there." (Wrong! At 44 you'd better know what you're 'looking for' and 'why you're here.' And if you don't. . .don't post a profile you’ve figured it out.)

**You're NOT 35 and the first line in your profile is, "So.... what can you bring to the table??" And the rest of her profile is basically focuses on how much she's into her work.

Honestly. Really? C'mon ladies. You're better than that. (Er. . .right?) What guy in his right mind would reach out to women like these?

Both were good looking. . .but this is just screaming, "Waste of time." There is nothing less appealing then ambivalence or someone who is 44 and still "not sure about this." (It's 2012.)

You may also please pass me by if you're the type to endlessly email rather than passing on your # to set up a quick time to meet.

Also. . .what’s with the "coffee dates" during the middle of the work day? Really? What are we, in high school? We're adults. Adults have cocktails (or if you don't drink, something non-alcoholic or whatever) and meet after work so you can actually relax and maybe have some fun.

(As far as the giving-out-your-number thing? Block it if you want--that's fine we get it--women need to be careful.) But don't endlessly sit here emailing guys never meeting, and then complain to your "bff's" (Fyi? That term should be outlawed for use by any woman over 30) that there are "no good guys" around.

So if you’re still with me. . . definitely write if:

*You're not any of the types in the above examples.
*You're not afraid to put it out there. . . .and get it back.
*You're not afraid to take a chance! To smile. To have some fun!
*You can’t leave a bookstore empty handed.
*You have a sense of humor.
*You're ready to grab a drink sooner rather than later.

There's nothing more disappointing then taking the time to text or email only to find out that the person you're looking forward to meeting isn't in town, lied and really lives in Colorado but "is looking to move here" or "commutes here a lot" or whatever. Yup. Have heard them all.

And I swear. . .everything I wrote in this profile are absolutely real examples.

And finally, please do NOT contact me if you're not near or in NY. . .

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Martial arts, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Aries
College:
University of Rochester, Rochester, NY
For fun:

Broadway and off-Broadway shows are big with me. Comedy and jazz clubs, the movies, a great cup of coffee on a rainy Sunday. Exploring new restaurants, bars, lounges.

Favorite hot spots:

Love good cocktail bars. Flatiron Lounge, Pengu, etc. I'm spoiled about good sushi having lived in Japan, so I'm pretty picky about that although I'll try anywhere once. LOVE Korean, Indian, and Thai food as well. (The spicier the better.)

Favorite things:

Addicted to 24. (Who isn't?) ;) (Hey, hey. . there are actually SOME good shows on TV.) Not many, but a few. Music? Lend me a CD I don't have to rip and you'll immediately get on my good side. ;)

Last read:

Industry trade journals, The Intellectual Devotional, Blue Ocean Strategy.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
5'1" (154cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Green
Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference

I run my own business. Raising capital for another.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

I find myself inclined to agree with various Native American philosophies, Zen Buddhism, Taoism, and stuff like that. Makes more sense to me. (Crazy Wisdom. Great book if you can find it!)

Languages:
English, Japanese
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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