I'm a minister and a single women. who wants a lifetime partner and not just a temporary moment.. Love is more then just a feeling its common ground to be constantly cultivated into perfection. I see a relationship as a double sided mirror. If i want it in the relationship I do my best to make sure I'm doing the same. no one is perfect but when you take the time to know someone, you begin to grow together. take chances to build something with someone rather then just thinks it's easier to find interest in someone else.