I am cool and collected. People say I have a problem because I smile too much -- even in the bad times. I like to believe my smile is contagious, lol. I'm looking for someone understanding, patient and loving, not afraid to show affection and with a sense of humor. I'm also attacted to a woman who understands that she doesn't need to show that she is independent all the time, is not afraid to be herself and can just relax and enjoy the moment.