I don't know if there's such thing as a perfect match... I'd like to spend time with someone who makes me laugh and can have fun in most situations. Someone considerate and kind, but not boring. I've never met anyone I was attracted to online. So I'm skeptical that the borgs can find what I need (no I'm not a Star Trek fan).
I'd love for someone to prove me wrong.
I'd like to meet someone driven and bright. Someone who can banter and joke and not be easily offended. I'm very direct, I make fun of myself and others frequently. Not in a cruel fashion. I just enjoy seeing the humor in things. I'm also very honest about my feelings and opinions and I appreciate the same in others. I try not to live in the clouds. I like to be as realistic as possible.
My kids are very close to me and very important. I have a very good relationship with my ex and her boyfriend. Our custody situation is very flexible and we occasionally hang out together as a family. I expect who I date to respect that, and frankly, appreciate it. It's uncommon and it makes life a lot easier and more pleasant for all involved.
Now the negative. Not crazy about dogs or pets in general. I have enough on my hands with two small humans. That's not to say I'm totally opposed. Just not crazy about people who are CRAZY about animals. If you like big dumb guys with muscles and tattoos you're probably not going to like me very much. I think you should be able to spell, 'nuff said? Flakes, liars or just plain inconsiderate people make me crazy. You wouldn't like me when I'm crazy.