I'm a genuine Pisces by nature, always going with the flow, and that should sum me up in a nutshell if you believe in astrology. If not, that's okay too. I can't say I plan my days or nights by the stars, but I find the coincidences of life interesting and sometimes unreal. I'm spontaneous and live life to its fullest. I'm always on the go, getting my daily rush just from being alive. I'm confident, not arrogant and assertive, but not pushy. I have been fortunate to have a terrific son and two incredible daughters to share my life. Anyone with children can probably understand that compliments from your children are rare, but one of the compliments they've paid me is that I leave everyone feeling a little better about themselves after every encounter. I try to be kind and generous with everyone and like including others into the fun. I am certainly outgoing, enjoy socializing, and good conversation. My counterpart would be someone who is independent, secure with herself, and passionate about her life. And like me, can go from blue jeans to black tie without any hesitation. I'm looking for my last first date. I've learned that the secret to a long term relationship is as much mental compatibility as physical. One cannot thrive without the other and we can't live life without either. If you're spontaneous, enjoy adventure, travel, and the outdoors we should talk. I believe you can learn more in five minutes on the phone than a week of email.