I'm a compassionate and loyal person; and I think those are two important traits needed in a relationship. The man I want would match me in the with the following traits: He has a sense of humor (though doesn't need to use it to degrade others), a kind heart, a sense of romance (even if tiny, I can't handle too too much lol), political and spiritual sensibility, integrity, a good work ethic, and a positive outlook on the existence of love and relationships. I will want someone seeking a long term monogamous relationship (although those are not a guarantee each time of course) and is not just aiming to jump into bed with me--sometimes you have to be blunt... I also would like for him to appreciate himself, what others have to offer, and the little things that can make life beautiful. I don't want someone quick to anger, as I am not. I need someone who values understanding over debate, and I want someone who takes a prudent, yet wise approach to life.