OK This will not be 4000 characters.That is for damn sure. I grew up on the East Coast. I am a fun, down to earth and very successful professional that is looking for a mature, educated and fun woman. She needs to know who she is and be comfortable with herself. I was raised with values and respect for friends, elders and all people. I still hold on to the motto that nice guys finish first when it is all said and done. I can look myself in the mirror and feel good no matter what the outcome. I grew up in suburban Philadelphia and moved to California in 92. I am quite frankly a little tired of looking for quality women in so many of the wrong places. The OC is very strange to me when it comes to dating. Unfortunately my job in construction sales involves very little exposure to women. I work for a very large corporation based out of Connecticut. I handle sales in the Southern California territory.
I am not sure why this matchmaking thing has to be such rocket science. If there is someone out there that shares my values and I am attracted to then I think this whole dating thing is solved. If I have a fault it is that there are some areas where I am not flexible and I think my portfolio indicates pretty clearly what those areas are. Please no skeletons in closets, no game playing and most importantly no lying or deception.
I am a very sociable person but I can be shy at times under certain circumstances. I am definitely someone most women would be proud to be around and also to take home to meet Mom and Dad (when the time comes). I am not a major fan of tattoos and as such I do not have them.
I am very independent person. I can be the leader in a relationship but not dominating. My ideal match should not have problems at times if I prefer to have some down time by myself or with the buddies from time to time. I would expect and grant the same of her. A physical attraction is important and personality and a good heart are imperative. I am not a jealous person and do not play games.
I really can't type very well so quite honestly I will leave the rest of this section up to a conversation over the phone or perhaps a cup of coffee or a cocktail by the water or such.