The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. I'm even insane or optimistic. I prefer to believe the latter.here we go!
I'm not sure I will find what I am looking for here, but I suppose it doesn't hurt to take a chance. I'm ready for a relationship.
I stay busy with work and 9 year-old twin boys who are the loves of my life (so far). If I have to describe myself I will say I'm a great mother, a hard worker, passionate, athletic, aggressive, energetic, type A, smart, petite, definitely in shape. I'm comfortable in high heels or a baseball cap. I'm proper, yet have a bit of a wild streak. I appreciate little things. I stand up for others and probably would not be a good match for a follower because I have a strong personality. I have an easy, natural connection with most people, especially children. I have a good heart, and I'm often told I'm a ridiculously happy, sexy, positive person. (I'm not on drugs. That's just me.) I can also be a very difficult person to deal with if I'm treated badly! I still believe in romance and chivalry (opening doors, etc.). Thoughtfulness, generosity and common courtesy are qualities that are important to me. I need to be with someone who is athletic. I run and work out, I enjoy hiking, rock climbing, water skiing, snow skiing, and pretty much anything outdoors. A healthy, active lifestyle is a must. There are also times I Iike to slow down and just RELAX. It isn't possible very often. My sons are playing their fifth season of baseball and they also play soccer between seasons. There is always somewhere to go, somewhere to be, and it feels like I'm running around all the time. I welcome the occasional weekend when there is nothing on the schedule!
In an attempt to weed out the incompatibles, I should add this...I'm content and happy. If someone is going to be a part of my life they need to be able to take care of me better than I can take care of myself...make me happier than I am now. (I'm perfectly comfortable saying this because I'm a giver. I have no doubt whoever is in my life will be more than satisfied in return.) Life is good, kids are happy, I have a good friendship with my ex-husband (zero drama). We all work together as a team...an "unconventional family" so to speak. I am not here to "hook up" - so all of the serial daters, please stay away. Also, If you can't write or spell please don't bother me as I'm a nerd and a grammar snob. Intelligence turns me on more than anything. I'm a sucker for big words...eloquence makes my heart beat and I will ultimately melt. I'm yours! If you live out of state don't contact me - no, I don't want to "get together" while you are in town. Seriously? If you are "separated" you are "married" - I'm not interested. Finally, I don't care for winks. I feel like it's throwing bait and hoping someone bites. It also lets me know immediately that you did not take time to read. In summary - no meat heads, no morons, NO BAD GUYS. Is there anyone left?
If you're still reading I have to give you props! This may seem like a long, strict list of requirements (I have heard that before), but if you get to know me I'm actually a laid back, free spirit.
Other than ALL of that, I'm just a normal girl who still believes in true love. I dream of meeting a high achiever who I connect with on many levels...someone I can love, respect, and adore. Someone who is a Christian and who will lead our family. Someone who makes me smile. Submitted from mobile
