My name is Brian and I'd like to consider myself as humble, confident, committed, funny, and "one of the good guys".
Although....a friend of mine recently paid me a complement and said that I "was in the 98 percentile" (and I disagree with her)--but that pretty much tells me I have to start working on that 2% lol.
So I typically don't message women online. If I view your profile it means that I'm interested. You are welcomed to message me. If I don't respond...well, I think we both know what that means... (OBTW...I only have a trial membership---so I may not respond as I don't think it's worth it).
I totally get that many of you are being bombarded with messages from hot and horny guys...I'm going to rise above the fray and simply not compete. If you're interested...you'll let me know; then I got it from there. I'm opting out of the modus operandi.
I turned 41 on Jan 20 and I'm all ready to begin my mid-life crisis. I'm actually looking forward to it. I just got a new zippy car, got the house and kids...now all I need is a woman half my age (lol). Well....30 to 48 would be nice. I'm attracted to "thin", "athletic", or "average" women (with the understanding that "average" does not mean that the average American is over weight). So please, PLEASE no BBW(s).
I take good care of myself and my idea match would as well.
So I'm just about to throw in the towel with online dating. Been on a few dates...had some good meetings over coffee or lunch...just no chemistry. I'm willing to give it a little more time...but then I'm cashing out; taking this fish out of the pond of eligible bachelors.
I'm liberal (i.e. I support freedom of choice; same sex marriage; I don't do drugs but I support the legalization of MJ). I can't stand FOX news and if you're a fan...well, you'll understand if I tell you we wouldn't be a good match (unless you're really really hot!--lol).
I don't need drama so please be solid in your life and what you are seeking in a friend / lover.
As a man, I would be lying if I said that sex is not something I'm looking for. However, it is secondary to finding a friend, conversationalist, and all around co-equal partner. I'm not here to just hook up and I'm ok with just making friends (if meeting doesn't spark chemistry).
With all seriousness...what I want more than anything else is to fall in love again. A part of me doesn't believe that I'll ever find it (and if I don't...then sadly, I'll get by---because then there's the whole problem of sharing a bathroom and--oh God--all the cosmetics and toiletries that come with it--lol). But I don't only want to get by....
You know what I'm talking about...the type of person that when you kiss...you feel like you're going to pass out. The type of lover that when you are apart...you crave to embrace again. The type of person that you can't wait to share the details of your day with. I sometimes wonder if these feelings are of myth and the lore of our youth...lost to us with the passing of time and the loss of our innocence. I'm in search of that "loving feeling" (great...now I have images of the movie "Top Gun" running through my head and the song "You lost that loving feeling". (lol).
I have all kinds of time on my hands and I can pretty much meet at a time and date of your convenience if you're interested. Messaging is great...but face to face is the best way to gauge chemistry. Go ahead...be bold, take a risk, and good luck in your search if you decide not to message me. Thanks for reading.