Looking for my equal passion. The person who is comfortable with me in almost any situation. My "soul mate", the one who is Beautiful on the Inside (as well as the outside). Honest, patient, gentle, kind, sensitive, intellegent, driven but balanced. With the passing of my beautiful wife, my life has been turned upside down. I am slowly learning to deal with it and am a happy person. I have recently moved to La Costa, Carlsbad Ca and enjoying the lifestyle. I am planning on retaining a second residence at a lake house in the Poconos.
If I'm permitted a "commercial" my wife Paula who had the body of a life long Swimmer actually said I had a good body, but the NUMBER ONE COMPLIMENT ever recieved from her was that "I made her feel SAFE". From a person who endured, 6 surgeries, over 50 Chemo treatments, PET scans, MRI's, xrays, ultrasound tests, CA-125 results and more, "helping her to feel safe" is what I am most proud.
OK, lets get physical. I stay in shape and like working out. I'm 5'8" , 142 lbs and have a 29' waist. My colesterol is low (give blood regularily), my heart is strong and my body fat low. Remember what Indiana Jones said ladies......"It's not the age, it's the mileage that counts." My "biological age" is 54, (tests Dr's do with your physical attributes and compute a number). People regularily comment that they think I'm in my 40s...... I'll put my money where my mouth was.......If we meet and you don't think
I look as young as someone in their 50s, I'll pay your match.com membership........how's that......... a money back guarantee!
OK, that's the "sex" part of sex, drugs and rock n roll.. Saw Chris Isaaks recently , awesome performer, but I digress (I really love LIVE music of many types).....Belly UP, Kraken, Patrick's II, the Gaslamp, Humphreys anyone????
Seriously, relationships depend a lot on the big three of Sex (Chemistry), Finances and Family. NET NET, I am financially blessed, and am not interested in your money. Family is very important, however my family is on the East Coast; it may be a while before you meet. I'd be honored to meet your family and know that it is one of the key parts of a successful relationship. I respect your own time with family and friends as well. I'm not a jealous person.