I just turned 44, my children are in college, and I am a Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor who co-wrote a book with my sister about a Bully named Mean Max. I work with adolescents ages 12-21. I have an awesome work schedule, four 10 hour shifts and Friday, Saturday, and Sunday off. I am looking for an attractive "normal", nice guy, who doesn't have a drinking or drug problem which means I prefer men that don't head butt me and drag me by my hair, have jobs, and do not live with their mothers, lol. I have a crazy sense of humor and I can have fun without doing drugs. Occasionally, I kick it with friends and go dancing and have a few drinks. I consider myself somewhat of a perfectionist, but I do know I am not perfect. I pride myself on doing a good job and I am well respected amongst my colleges. I have been through many challenges and I am now ready to just live the easy life. Living the easy life to me is having a good job, a nice crib, having fun, adventure, traveling, and a partner who loves me for who I am. I have all these things but the latter.