I have a pretty busy life but this is because I like being a busy person! I consider myself fun, outgoing, but sometimes a little shy when I first meet someone. I decided to check this out to see what is out there. I am looking for someone honest without any drama and someone who is content and stable with their own life. I am not looking for insecurity or needy; especially someone who is not self-centered!
I do have children and have been divorced for a while. There is no drama in my life because I know it is a waste of energy! It does not matter if my match has kids or not, but they should like kids. It helps if that person has kids, but I do not judge! I just know what I want and what I don't want, so why waste time? Now, I am just looking to see what’s out there. It is hard to meet people and I do not go to the bars for that. I am not perfect and I am willing to bet no one else is. I am myself and what you see is what you get. I am not the type to pretend to be someone else!
I do not live by the "old fashioned rules." A couple should be 50/50 with 100% trust. If there is no trust than you really don't have anything at all.
I prefer to stay away from those with a criminal history, drug use/abuse or severe drinkers. Please understand that my children will always come first as a priority. I take pride in being a good mother as I am sure anyone with kids does (or at least should).
The perfect person would be someone open minded, trusting, loyal, and a good heart! I am not looking to play games. I am just looking for someone I can be myself with and vice versa.....A best friend. Someone to laugh with until your cheeks hurt! Someone with goals is very important! I don't really care if that person makes a smaller salary or a huge salary. If you have goals, you will achieve them. As long as your not sitting on the couch day in and day out "daydreaming of goals."
Well, that's all I got for now!
