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41 year old man
Atlanta, Georgia, United States

Seeking:
men 30-50
Within:
50 Miles of Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
No
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Please be over 35. No offense to anyone born after 1979, but you gotta draw the line somewhere.

As I have gotten older, I have understood that it can be very liberating to shed away many of the attitudes and behaviors that I (and many of us) adopted as a young gay man. Often, when we are in our 20's we value the "gay cliches" (hot gym body, magazine looks, expensive cars, houses, clothes, the "right" friends, dance clubs, et cetera). Growing up in a world that did not send us positive messages about our sexuality (for many of us) did tremendous damage to how we felt about ourselves as valuable human beings. When we were young, some of us tried to make up for these negative thoughts by becoming the hottest, most in shape, sought after man in the club. Others felt that a nice car, expensive house, or great career could be what finally defined us as a valuable person.

However, as we age, we suddenly find ourselves at a fork in the road. Some of us follow the path that leads left and the others make the decision to go right.

Those who go left are the men who never move beyond that unauthentic value system they created for themselves in their twenties. And many men try as hard as they can to hold onto it because the thought of losing the body, looks, and the other things that they thought made them valuable can be extremely terrifying. So they continue down this path of desperation, never realizing what lies on the other path.

Those who go right swallow the bitter pill that the life we had in our twenties slowly begins to escape us. We sense that we aren't getting the looks from other guys that we used to get. We see that it is much harder to keep a decent body than it used to. And we realize that there is so much more to life than what is so often the focus of the gay scene.

I've swallowed the bitter pill and taken the road that leads right. I decided to go on a journey of personal growth, to move beyond all of those phony things I thought made me a valuable human being. It has been the greatest experience of my life. It's a journey, and I will never finish it. However, I feel so much more liberated to be my own individual (no matter how different or weird or strange anyone else thinks I am).

I prefer to meet another man who understands where I am coming from. For me, there should be mental, emotional, and physical chemistry. And I would certainly not expect that to develop until meeting in person. Online photos and conversations are nice introductions, but knowing if you have found your man requires a lot of one-on-one time.

Thank you for reading.

CJN

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Exploring new areas
Sports & exercise:
Weights / Machines
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Political views:
Very Liberal
Sign:
Virgo
College:
Georgia Institute of Technology, Atlanta, GA
For fun:

I'm a true independent. I have very few close friends who are near and dear to me. However, when I'm not with them, I enjoy time with myself - reading, painting, working out, cardio. I'm not a total weirdo (just slightly), but I like my "me time".

Favorite hot spots:

My oven.

Favorite things:

My Jack Russell Shelby

Last read:

Barron's Guide to Calculus

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Light brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
No
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Black / African descent, Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

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