On the spot here - honestly, if I knew about "me and my match," I'd already have one, right? I thought I had a "type," but then I realized I was wrong. I can't pinpoint what I find attractive, but it usually involves a strong, open, optimistic, quirky, honest personality. Especially the honest part - lies are a deal-breaker in my book. I'm looking for someone who understands that I'm a busy person but is ready to savor the un-busy times with me. Someone who loves food, good conversation, the occasional "argument," the great times in life. The quiet things. The crazy things. The "WTF, did that just happen?" things. I work hard so that I can enjoy all the rest of life and would like to find someone that feels the same way.