What do I want and like? Well I'm a Brit so you need to understand a dry and witty humor. On that I have a very odd accent. I was born and lived in Ireland then moved to England for ten years then to the US in my late teens, my accent is a mix of all three it tends to make others give me odd looks because they have no clue what to make of me.
I'm very loyal and loving, but I am no pushover. I wont do the norm and try and sell myself as something I'm not - I don't like fake and like to be treated as I treat others. I'm a people observer and because of that some think I am shy, I'm not. I AM still married but its over, paperwork is in and would be over already if laws where not what they are. The ex is in a job that is protected and whenever he leaves the US all cases are halted. I swear he is asking for these trips. Every time someone new gets done he gets to leave.
I have children all in school, I not want a baby daddy, they have a daddy and he will always be involved. I do not want more children, The earth is overpopulated as it is and growing at a steady rate. I see no reason to make another contribution. I do not mind if someone has children.
I don't think you can date anyone without getting to know them as a friend first, so I see this as a way to meet friend site not a lover, boyfriend spouse ect, etc thing. I love a good curry and will drink from time to time, but not often. I rather drink a glass of wine at home in my hot-tub I do smoke. I know, its nasty and I hide in my yard when I do it and look down on those that do in inside, in a car and around children.