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38 year old man
San Diego, California, United States

Seeking:
women 35-45
Within:
25 Miles of San Diego, California, United States
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, White / Caucasian, Other
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Ready? This is going to be pretty scary for some of you. Where to start?

I'm separated.

Still intrigued?

Yes, it's not traditional. We are better roommates than romantic partners and we're both out there looking around. There's no drama and it's mutual. We'll always be fantastic friends (and yes, I might talk about you with her) but there's really nothing to worry about because we won't get in the way of any outside romantic relationships that either of us have

Still there?

Oh, and I have a daughter - she's adorable and I will do anything for her.

You're still here? What are you doing? Run!

Let's talk about who I am, and what I'm looking for. This is a work in progress so bear with me. Hopefully I won't have too many grammatical mistakes.

I am a thoughtful guy interested in meeting new friends, activity partners, and maybe something more. You should be curious about the world, and have something you want to share with others. I believe everyone has something to offer. Even if we're not attracted to one another, I'm still interested in YOU.

I think you'll find that I'm a committed person who can get along with just about anyone, enjoys life, and is a good partner.

I'm looking for someone who is OK with a kid - I have a daughter who's under 2 now - and can be flexible in the time commitment that a child requires. If you're OK with incorporating her into your life then all the better - I'm of the opinion that the more people in her life who love her, the better.

Let's see, what else? I could say I like "music" or "the outdoors" but that's so freaking generic, so let's get specific. Here are 10 albums I would want with me if I went all Cast Away on the world:

1. The Cure: Disintegration
2. Radiohead: OK Computer
3. The Flaming Lips: Yoshimi Battles The Pink Robots
4. Radiohead: Kid A
5. Sufjan Stevens: Come On Feel The Illinoise
6. Tori Amos: Scarlet's Walk
7: Ani DiFranco: Knuckle Down
8: 10,000 Maniacs: Our TIme In Eden
9: Jay-Z: The Black Album
10: The Beatles: The White Album
11: The Grateful Dead: American Beauty (yes I know I only said 10, but as I was coming up with the Movies list below I thought I needed to add this for completion)

Yes, I realize Radiohead shows up twice, and it's sort-of sorted by male / female, but I swear that's not intentional, except for the Radiohead part.

Movies, you say? I like movies too:

1. Aliens
2. Bram Stoker's Dracula
3. The Fifth Element
4. Episode V
5. Fight Club
6. The Silence of the Lambs
7. American Beauty
8. Amelie
9. Snatch
10. Twelve Monkeys

This list is much harder. There are a ton of movies I like, but unlike music, you can't just put them on repeat and not get sick of them. Not a lot of romantic comedies in there, sorry, but I am a guy after all. I will watch and enjoy them, but usually not more than once.

About you:
You should also be mature, financially stable, and have a good sense of humor.

You should be open to new things and new people. I don't like clubbing, but I'm OK if you want to go clubbing with your friends (just don't drag me along please). I do like coffee shops, conversation, book clubs, neighborhood parties, cookouts, hiking, and road trips. I'm OK with you not liking any of these individually, but we need to have at least one of them in common I think.

Match is saying I have 637 characters remaining. I'm going to leave them empty right now and maybe come back later to add some stuff in. If you made it this far, send me a wink or an email and maybe we can have a conversation.

Interests:
Book club, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

I have a cat - Petri - who is a rescue. He's a cool cat. I also like dogs but don't really want the maintenance required.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I like going to the movies and trying new places to eat. I like to cook when I get the time, and consider myself a pretty good chef.

Favorite things:

Spending time with my daughter. After that, spending time with friends at either a coffee shop, bar/restaurant, or just at home.

Last read:

I read a lot of nonfiction, Malcolm Gladwell is one of my favorite authors. As far as fiction goes, I like Stephen King and other modern authors (David Sedaris, Dave Eggers, Jonathan Franzen, Jeffrey Eugenides, and George Saunders)

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
3'0" (91cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
About average
No preference
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference

I love my work but it doesn't define who I am. I'm a technical manager at a local biotech firm.

Income:
$150,001+
No preference
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, White / Caucasian, Other
Asian, Middle Eastern, White / Caucasian
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

I've got a few post-graduate classes under my belt but the time commitment is too great for me at this time to pursue a matriculated degree. I am highly educated within my field however (computer networking / security) and well respected.

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