People tell me that I make them feel good when I talk to them. I am happy to compliment people and praise and congratulate them on their good works and accomplishments. I am not a hater, I'm a celebrator and a motivator. This is a very un-New York attitude, I have observed over my years living here.
I am an enthusiastic, high-stimulation person with many different interests and curiosities who could never be called a drag. My cup runneth over with fun and interesting things to do, and if you are into some activity or hobby I am 99% of the time willing to give it a go or at least go along. Rarely will I veto. Just recently, for example, I went to a comedy night, the Metropolitan Opera, an indoor party in an Indian tent, danced at the Spring Fair in Sevilla Spain, followed the Euro Cup, got licked in the face by wolves, sang karaoke in Tokyo, and visited a parasite museum. I like to nap in between all these activities. I love to bring people into activities with me and share experiences with them. Sometimes I make the adventure into a surprise.
I have one of them snappy, saucy, sarcastic personalities and can also be very sweet, and I want to do nice things for you. I am very sensual. I have a lot of love to give and enjoy receiving it too. An exchange of affection is really important to me. I like to think I am easy to be with, and put energy into contributing positively toward my relationships and toward treating you special- if you are worthy. I might be the smart, funny, adventurous, silly, creative sweetheart you might be looking for.
My match? Someone to hold hands with.
Someone who has my back.
Someone who loves to get out there and do everything they/we/I find interesting but also who likes to lie around sometimes and make out and order in and watch movies and documentaries and shows that make us laugh or call bulls@#t.
Someone clever and smart, with the good banter, who I can hoot and holler with, and who says such funny things that I literally burst into applause. I like funny, light-hearted fellas who come through when it's time to be serious, knowledgeable and heroic.
Someone really very interesting and interested in lots of different things, a worldly man, who is willing to tell me about what I don't already know (and isn't condescending about it, which eclipses the knowledge being imparted), and to go check out the things we both don't know, and be turned on to what I know.
Someone I can respect and admire.
Those who hold travel and/or living abroad as high priorities are my kind of people. I have some life experiences I am contemplating that would take place out of this country so the fella has to be open to it and even better, already has a career involving travel abroad or structures his work so he can go away on adventures. This is not a dealbreaker though. We can also be ecstatically happy together right here.
I want a real team-mate- we can pool our strengths and support each other in any weaknesses. I want to be turned on by my man and lose my breath in our kisses.
I want someone who is easy to be with. Don't be mean or a bad communicator- don't make it hard. You know that feeling when you are just together because you want to be together-- that's what I am looking for.