first of all.. dont let yourself be discouraged by what I put in my profile. As I have learned that here in NY a lot of filtering is necessary until you meet some good people you can relate too. I am much sweeter and nicer than my profile give the impression at first.. hehe! these are just the prophilactica general terms and conditions...
Moved to NJ/NY from Germany at the end of june. I grew up in Guatemala, Germany and Bolivia but have been living the last few years in Hamburg, Frankfurt and Hannover... somehow I have the feelin I have been moving around all my life.. and I think I have had enough for a while..
It was hard managing to have an equilibrated live in Europe or Latinamerica, always missing stuff from the part I was not at.. To fit in those places was difficult.. Read a lot about people with multiple roots finding their place somewhere else than the countries they came from, mostly in places where the mixture of cultures had something of both.. maybe the US is the right place, and now seeing and getting to know the vastness of NJ and NY I might agree.. here everybody seems to have those roots issues..
So, I am new here and I would love to get to know some nice, honest, full hearted people, with emotional and mental intelligence. I am not very good with emotions and that stuff but I want to learn. I want to be a part of something, but I am stil not sure what... I can take pretty good care of myself and the people around me who have won my respect and affection, and I am not interested in a classic relationship with the classic role arrangement and validation by the social environment. I also dont want a smartphone junkie..
An while I am at it, I have no interest in chronic flirting games, hooking strategies, people without pictures, people who just answer questions without telling about themselves, just winks, intolerance, narrow mindedness, nazis, chauvinists, extrem patriots and rugby players..
If you also do not know why all the A.C. is not good, if you shop and try to get as many plastic bags as possible, if you own more than one car and if you dont reflect on your footprint as a human being on earth, then also dont bother..
I am big and scary looking, but I am pretty sure I have a good heart. I love sportive competition, I love natural flirting, I love sports fighting (mma and bjj) and I love talking about everything.. I like thinking that I try to enjoy life with everything that it brings but not without conscience... I just dont want to enjoy it alone anymore.
Life and emotions make me smile.
If you really want something, nobody can stop you. Problem is to find out what you want..
I would like somebody who is sensual, sure of herself, feminine, funny, social, who wants to share her life with me and the world and who is not afraid to go against the social consens and mostly who can handle a little shaking of the chore of her beliefs.. because somehow that is what I do..