I'm a very easy going kind of guy. I've learned a lot in my life about who I am and what I want from life. What I do have is the sense that everyday is a real adventure. It doesn't matter if the adventure is big or little, but everyday is different and an opportunity. I just want to enjoy my life and hopefully share it with someone who has a sense of adventure and fun. I am secure with who I am and am looking for someone who knows who they are. I am not looking for a person to fix and not looking to be a project for somebody else.
I have a career as a computer programmer, working for in the casino industry right now designing games, and I really enjoy what I do. I also enjoy cooking, especially coming up with something new. I am an avid reader and music listener. I really enjoy things that are off the beaten path, and walk to the beat of my own drum, and it's not to be different for the sake of being different, just being true to myself.
I have a wicked sense of humor and being able to laugh is must have in my partner. If you are able to find the humor in just about anything then we should be able to get along (even if you are the only one who gets the joke, which sometimes is even better!). However I do not ever go out of my way to cause harm, and if I make a joke that really offends someone then I make sure they know I meant no harm. I do not like cruel people.
I want to be in an equal relationship and valuing mutual respect is a must. I don't care for angry/negative people at all. And hopefully you don't take yourself too seriously.
I am also a single father to two wonderful young sons (ages 8 and 7), and it's going to stay that way so loving children is going to be important, just don't expect me to introduce them right away. That will be something I'm not in any rush to do. I'm not looking for a mom for them, I am looking for that right woman for me not them.
Hopefully you are honest, want an honest healthy relationship, and decide you want to be with me for me. And most important of all...
(that was the joke, hope you got it!) Have a sense of humor!
