Well what can I say, I am new at this and like to see what happens. I am not a subscriber yet but you find me with the fishys ;) I feel that being friends first is the best way to go. I want someone that I can trust and be honest with me. I want someone that is smart, has goals, and can carry a conversation. Also, he must want to have fun and be silly to. I am comfortable going out to nice places or staying in and cuddling. I am pretty easy going. I love to watch football and hockey. And I am a big Steelers and Pens fan. I have learned that relationships are not easy, and they require compromises and honesty. I am looking to find a guy that will treat me as good as I would treat him. What is there to lose? But if nothing else, gain a friendship out of it.