I am a 39 year old widow with a 22 year old son living at home,and an 18 year old daughter away at college.These were the supposed to be the best years of my life and I never expected to be spending them alone.I miss having someone to talk to about my day. I miss the feeling of having someone to share everyday with. Good times as well as bad.I miss having someone to cook for and do things for. I just miss having someone to share everything with. I really don't know what I'm looking for, but I do know that I'm not into the bar,club scene.I want someone who can make me laugh. Someone who likes to hang out with friends at home, as well as go out and have fun.Someone who appreciates all kinds of music .I don't like drama or people who take life too seriously all of the time. I've learned to not sweat the small things.There is always someone out there that is worse off than you. Life can change in an instant,and you have to just appreciate what you have.My kids are my life and as they are getting older and more independent,I realize that I have to start living again. So, I am giving this a shot.