I am a fun, outgoing, but still kinda shy, handsome, athletic, romantic guy who craves intimacy with a special lady who is honest, loving, smart, and beautiful on the inside while still appealing on the outside. While others seem to prefer the outdoors and romantic, long walks on the beach (ok, nothing wrong with that but have you seen the beach here?), I am really looking for someone who I can bond with, hold in my lap while reading a book, caressing her neck, shoulders, and feet, and share a connection without any words spoken as easily as I can laugh together with socially or alone together. I have very definite ideas for myself about the world, and about my life, but I am very open minded, and welcome the right woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to pursue it with gusto and passion. Pics are a plus, but not absolutely necessary as long as you are truly wonderful.