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39 year old woman
Alexandria, Virginia, United States

Seeking:
men 35-45
Within:
50 Miles of Alexandria, Virginia, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I've been living/working abroad for the last 6 years, spliting my time between Costa Rica, Santa Rosa, DC-area, and Europe. Let me put it this way: I pay rent in Costa Rica, I have a California driver's license with a Maryland address on it, my Amazon packages get delivered to Alexandria, and the majority of my clothing is in the Balkans.
But, lately, I've been thinking it might be time to come home.

Me:
* caring, respectful, honest, serious, fun, funny, quirky. very quirky. You either love me for it, or you don't. Either way, I won't hold it against you.

* very independent, maybe too much so (but how do you 'work' on that!?), strong, with a soft inside, brilliant, with a good dose of ditz to me.

* stickler for grammar, spelling, and proper syntax.

* I don't take myself, or life, too seriously. If I've learned anything, it's that nothing is guaranteed, there is always a way out, and that we always have a choice. We might not like the choice(s), but they are always there. And that with laughter and joy, even the worst of circumstances become at least tolerable.

*I have an active OR7D4 gene. I don't care if you don't.

*I am quite comfortable in my own skin.
Don't expect me to wear the latest fashions or designer labels. Do expect me to look the part and always be dressed appropriately for the situation.
(notice that I didn't say 'expect me to always be clean', because, really, if we were camping or, say, trekking through a rainforest, chances are, no, I would not be clean most of the time. But, there is something very organic about getting dirty and not caring about it!)

*I value honesty and integrity above all.

*I call a spade a spade. It's like when Match.com says 'You're both fine wine connoisseurs', I go, huh, what, 'connoisseur'? 'fine wine'? no, no, hon, it's not like that - I just like to drink wine.

*I have not produced my own offspring, and don't think I will (logistics, you know - if you're going to have one, it really should have a brother or a sister, so that means 2, which equals 3-4 years minimum, plus the time to get to know the person, and the time to get pregnant. Add it to my age... and yeah, you're getting into the mid-forties there). But I love children, and I'm great with them (everyone's favorite 'aunt', right?), so should you have any, they would be welcomed with open arms and an open heart. And
sent to their room if they are being brats.
(yeah, I have a degree in Psych, with emphasis on child development)

*I don't exactly believe in astrology, but I've been pondering my signs lately, as the combo seems to explain quite a bit - I'm a cancer with a sag rising (barely crossing into sag, technically a scorpio/sag cusp). as if that wasn't enough, I was born 6 weeks too early and would have been a leo had I been patient enough to wait for the due date (btw, I'm still working on that ever-elusive 'patience' thing people speak of)
Every astrology 'buff' I've ever met has asked me how I haven't gone insane yet. I guess 'yet' is the operative word here?
I don't know, but it's been a fun thing to think about.

*I enjoy 'taking care' of people, and have always done that, but over the last few years, I've grown to realize that maybe I would like to be taken care of too.
I am now ready for a man who will take care of me.
I want a man to be a man, make me feel safe, protected, loved, and allow me to be a woman, in a traditional sense of the word. Bottom line is, take away all the 'modern' things such as career, education, income, etc, I am a woman, and apparently, getting more and more old-fashioned as I go through my birthdays.

You:
* intelligent, strong, motivated, respectful, honest, assertive.
* can make me smile, and laugh, and can laugh with me, and AT me when I am being goofy or ridiculous.
* loving, but not co-dependent or overbearing
* secure and self-assured. Being a little needy from time to time can be cute being very needy and insecure all the time, not so much!

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Travel/Sightseeing, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
I'll tell you later
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Political views:
I'll tell you later
Sign:
Cancer
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I think about things I could write in my Match.com profile!

Favorite things:

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Last read:

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ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
Slender
No preference
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Light brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No preference
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
$100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English, Spanish, Other
English
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
No preference

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