I'm the 11 th child of 15. My two daughter's and my son are my life. I work, work-out and tend to the kids on a daily basis. I no when it's time for myself, because I feel overwhelmed. What I normally do when I feel like that is, take a day off and pamper myself, no job, no co-worker's, no Bosses and no KID's. I'm a dedicated and loyal mother and wife, if I ever get there again. I no when it's time to submit and when it's time to take control. I would love a man who is very successful, witty, loving, spiritual, kind and gentle. He has to love kid's and be able to accept me and my babies.