I would like to meet someone who........ is not selfish, funny, easygoing but not a push over, smart, and just really enjoys life even if things go wrong, by that meaning .... it's not what happens to you -- it's how you react to it. I think life it about choices and I just want to really try and make the right choice for me and the person I get involved with. I think to have a really great relationship, both have to be happy. And that's the most important thing. I also think a couple needs to always continue to have a date night once a week wheather it's going out or a candle light dinner and movies etc. That's keeps the relationship growing and not growing apart. One person should put effort in planning one week and the other person the next week. I also have a book on that. That's so cool!!