Two people walk into a room, full of couples, would be couples and singles hoping to be, would be couples. They start to individually turn and look at the two that just entered the room, and notice, they way they look at each other and softly hold each others hands, is somehow, different. Its obvious, these two, they're very happy,very secure,very affectionate, and very much in love. Low murmurs can almost be heard of "I want what they have together". And then we take our seats together, smile at each other, and remember, there was a time, we didn't think it was real, or possible,either
Me; Genuine-No games, I despise dishonesty you cant build anything on quicksand.Very loyal, dedicated, trusting, loving, expressive passionate. Strong willed at times, but a very good listener. I love the outdoors; ocean, mountain or desert related. Skiing is a passion. My photos are very current, and in any event I look just like them-or better in person.
And I am actually VERY funny despite this sounding so darn serious! (Oh- I have "children" but they are now adults-hence the "No" in my reply to "Has Children" question.)
I can, and will enjoy cooking, for someone. My intention is to spoil, dote, fawn over, hold doors open for, pamper, and play with - "her". None of these things, by the way necessarily involve a great deal of money. I]n fact best time I ever had with someone was playing skee- ball. A walk, a sunset, a sunrise, early morning hikes- practically free. I do enjoy nice things, but they mean nothing without someone special.
"She" will be feminine. Playful introspective. A little coy, but very loving and warm. Classy elegant, whether in your jeans, t-shirt, cowgirl hat, sweats or evening dress. Smart, dedicated and loyal. Sensual, yet a little goofy. Very affectionate and expressive. A best friend, passionate lover and ardent supporter. Secure in spending time apart if circumstances require, because our time together is amazing and filling. Athletic, but soft. A woman. She will like to cook, or at least be willing to play with a pan in the kitchen together.
I've tried to be specific in what I'm all about as well as what I hoping for. Truly, I am looking for someone very special, I'm not content to be single forever, but I wont be with someone I am not completely crazy about. I intend to give a lot, so I am looking for someone who is not the least bit intimidated by that. Someone who understands that a man being kind, loving, caring and giving is a sign of strength, not weakness, and that it's called affection, and it is the rarest of gifts.
Here's the deal. I am fully aware that I am a very unique guy. I know exaactly what I want I am wiling to wait, for exceptional. This comes from, like everything in life, a couple of hard experiences, and a couple of rare moments. These experiences are the stones in life that define, sharpen refine us. I am a "hopeful" romantic- meaning, I know the special kind of love that two people can share. Rare, indeed- but exeptional, is rare. I have a giant heart- but can "rough it up" with the best of them. Perhaps in the earlier part of my life I thought that was what defined a "man"-and what attracted a woman, to a man. At 15, maybe; but I believe authenticity is the strongest quality a man can possess. Authentic to who he is; his purpose; mission; "inner knowing" and of course, to the woman he loves. Intamacy, real intamacy, is born from this authenticity. It allows you to laugh together-belly laugh; love together-radiant love that lights up a room makes people smile; provides a safe place for us to grow, make mistakes, take chances fall ever more in love, every day. Being fair-I only write or respond to someone when I feel there is much more possible than a mere casual connection.
Last day is 02/22/2013- One month, for me, was enough.
Oh and please- if you do choose to send me an email-"Separated"= is still married , so I am defiantley NOT interested, please dont even send a message.