I think we are all on here for the same reason; we are looking to find the right person for us. Today, we all have busy lives and online dating is a much more acceptable way of dating and meeting people.
Even though I am young I tend to act older and more mature, so I have more in common with people that are older then me. I like to enjoy life to the fullest and can find most cups half full. Life can be tough at times and it really is those tough times that make me appreciate the fruitful ones. Being a go -getter and having the drive to do my best has allowed me to appreciate all the things I have worked for.
Those closest to me would say I am a bubbly person that has an outgoing and a no nonsense personality. I have a dry and sarcastic sense of humor and I try to make as much of life light hearted and funny as I can. I am the one that says what most think but lack the _ say.
In my free time and on weekends I enjoy reading, the beach in the summer, shopping, going out to eat, and spending time with friends and family. I am into fitness and exercise daily. I like being outdoors when its not extremely cold or hot, taking my dogs for long walks is one of the most relaxing activities. Being close with my family is very important to me, I consider my close friends part of my family. Surrounding myself with positive people is a must. Ultimately, it doesn't matter what you are doing, its more about the company you keep.
My match would….Well, I honestly don’t think anyone knows what an exact match would be until meeting and getting to know that person better.
-I am a caring and warm person. I can’t help but feel bad for the guy/lady sitting alone at a restaurant. I like helping others, possess compassion and empathy. Sincerity, honesty, and ambition are among the most important traits I feel a person can have.
Some things I find important are:
- Family/friends, you don’t have to have tons but at least have a few good ones.
-Dogs- Please like them! I have 2 now and intend on always having one in my life
-A sense of humor, quirkiness, talkative - I need someone with a fun personality that can challenge me. I would hope that my match would be talkative and cannot just hold a conversation but be animated.. Who really wants to sit across the table from someone that’s bland and boring?
-Adventurous- trying new things is great and I would love to have someone to do that with.
-Kids- I have always been a fan of them and enjoy their innocent perspective on life. I would hope my partner feels the same.
**Additionally I feel its important that the person is ready to be in a relationship. I know that we all have busy lives and work schedules but you only get 24 hours in a day and you only live once. So, it’s important to make the most of it and make time for the things that are important to you.
I spend time at both my beach house is Monmouth, and in Morris county.