Thoughtful things make me smile, even if its a letter saying "im thinking about you", ive had my struggles in life, but who hasn't? im not going to lie and say im perfect and everything youre looking for. The creator of us is the only person i see as perfect. Im witty, sarcastic and love to have a good laugh. I have two four year old twin boys that i love with all my heart without them i wouldnt be who i am today. NOT LOOKING FOR A FLING SO PLEASE KEEP MOVING, IF THATS ALL YOURE LOOKING FOR. I'm looking for a man thats driven, not cocky but confident, sweet, caring, can put himself in other people's shoes. Understanding and honest.