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28 year old man
Esperance, New York, United States

Seeking:
men 24-32
Within:
100 Miles of Esperance, New York, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Why not? You never know!

I rarely get stressed out. Seriously. Life is too short. What is most important to me in life is the immaterial(e.g., experiences, music, emotions, etc.).

I love blue skies, open water and bright sunshine. I've lived on both coasts of the US. I'm an explorer at heart. I've been an archaeologist a pianist, a counselor and a political activist. I am outgoing and easygoing; I like to think I am compassionate; I am extremely honest and forthright (gets me into trouble sometimes ;).

I laugh often.. I also enjoy making people smile/laugh. I enjoy cooking for my friends and family. I tend to give more than I end up taking. I am slow to make good friends but I am a fairly social person.

I was raised in upstate NY by a moral father and the best mother a boy could ask for. I have been blessed with a good life and now would like to share it with someone who shares my values...chief among which is moral sensitivity and empathy.

I think it would be nice to live in a small community on a beautiful island with my soul mate and write-off most of the world...if I wasn't possessed with a deep sense of social responsibility. I am passionate about social issues. If you don't care about the rest of the world we will not be a match.

A few things that are sure to turn me off are over-competitiveness, macho-male tough-guy capering, and guys who care more about other peoples perceptions than their own actions.

It does not define me, but I am most passionate about music, especially playing the piano, singing and composing. Some of my other hobbies include exploring, gourmet cooking and traveling (to expand my mind and see new places, not usually to relax...though these are not mutually exclusive for me, and I enjoy lazing around too =).

I love to spend time outdoors, especially in the sun and on the water....sailing; water skiing; swimming.

I love good beer, fine wine and gourmet food (expensive stuff unfortunately lol).

I like to go to new places and experience new things. There is so much to see in this world and so little time.

Here goes...

Ideally I would like someone who is articulate and well-mannered but not uptight; someone who is laid-back and doesn't take anything too seriously; someone I can be proud of at a dinner party; someone who can open my eyes to new ways of seeing the world; someone who is both intelligent and wise; someone who recognizes and can appreciate the simple pleasures in life; someone who is comfortable in nature; who is aware of and can live in the moment; someone that I can always share that knowing smile with.

I appreciate didacticism, contemplativeness, spontaneity and lightheartedness. I would like someone who will argue vehemently if he believes he is right but knows when to admit he's wrong....I like to debate and play devil's advocate on occasion...so if you don't enjoy disagreeing for the sake of a debate and can't laugh during and at the end of a good verbal sparring match...then we might not be a match. =)

I would like someone who will be comfortable mingling with my large, learned and amazing extended family; someone who is not afraid of new experiences and people. I would like to find someone who is empathetic and can see the world through others' eyes; someone who is not a cynic.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing cards, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Golf, Dancing, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

Have had dogs, cats, horses, fish. Currently I have a black lab puppy named Cal.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Virgo
College:
Colgate University, Hamilton, NY
For fun:

Exploring, water skiing, hiking, swimming, golf, movies, enjoy the sun and outdoors, backpacking, canoeing, weekend getaways, classical music, writing music, playing piano, reading, dancing, singing, sci-fi, historical fiction, strategy games

Favorite hot spots:

Laguna Beach, Santa Barbara, London, Denver/Boulder. The Adirondacks.

Favorite things:

Classical Music, NPR, pop music, pizza, sci-fi, historical fiction. Cloudless, blue-sky days. Bright sun. Holding hands, napping together. Hammocks. Craft beer. Lakes and Oceans. Exploring on summer days. Wood fires in the winter.

Last read:

"The Thirteen Gun Salute", "Our Sacred Honor", "Peace is Every Step". Usually reading a few books at once.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
5'7" (170cms) to 6'3" (190cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Blue
Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No preference
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Student
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Someday
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English, French
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Sociology; Anthropology (Archaeology); Music; Nursing.

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