I'm going to do my best to skip the standard intro in which I ramble on about my dating failures and tell you that I'm looking for a nice honest guy with a heart of gold...that seems to be the norm that leads all single adults onto a dating site in the first place. There's only so much of the bar scene you can take, as I don't really enjoy shouting over lame club remixes while some guy spills beer all over my shoes :)
As for me I'm a 29 year old girl who is finally getting everything in life I always wanted: career, cute house, awesome family and friends...it was only after being completely happy with myself that I realized that there was one tiny piece missing, someone to share all of it with. Being a bit of a dating imbecile whose social circle is full of nothing but married people, I brought myself online rather reluctantly in hopes that the virtual dating pool wouldn't be so shallow.
To describe myself briefly, I'd first have to say I have a very sarcastic sense of humor. Not in a mean-spririted way, but rather in a "I'm gonna try not to take myself too seriously, or I'll never get out alive" kind of way. If you find that sarcasm often goes over your head, I encourage you now to hit the "Back" button on our browser, as I assure you we won't be a good fit. That being said, a good sense of humor is very important to me, as I believe that is one of the most attractive things a man can have. If I'm having a bad day and you can make me laugh, I consider that a lot more of an important attribute than your rockin' six pack abs or the super sweet car that you drive.
Secondly, conversation is super important to me. Nothing is more frustrating than going out to dinner with someone who can't hold a conversation. It's not important to me what we're talking about, just please don't leave me to stare off into the distance at the TV that is up at the bar. It's awkward and uncomfortable, and nothing is more of a turn off.
Lastly important to me is a guy who is secure with who he is. I have an incredible group of friends that I spend a great deal of time with. I have no problem incorporating a guy into my plans, I just need someone that is comfortable with the fact that I am independent and have my own life as well....
Lastly, I am terrible at playing "the game" and determining if the correct number of days have passed in order for me to text/call you. If that's your current mentality, please continue on to your next match, as I don't want to play.
If any of the above sounds remotely interesting to you, drop me a line to say hi..