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57 year old man
Carmel Valley, California, United States

Seeking:
women 41-56
Within:
15 Miles of Carmel Valley, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Hello, thanks for noticing me. Yes, I will look at your pictures several times before I read your profile.

Favorite quotes (Oscar Wilde):
I can resist anything except temptation.
Always forgive your enemies - nothing annoys them so much.
Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.
Some cause happiness wherever they go; others whenever they go.

Essentials: Love. Self-examination and improvement. Forgiveness. Compassion. Tolerance. Patience. A thirst for knowledge.

I like walking on the beach, especially at sunset. Hand-holding is available upon request. I'm just as comfortable in jeans as I am in a little black dress ... oh, wait, that's you.

I am fully house-broken and have valuable domestic skills: I can load and empty the dishwasher, I am fully trained on sorting whites from colors and can actually fold and put laundry away! I can fix anything. The seat will always be down. You can have the remote.

I prefer wine over beer. In fact, I really do not like beer at all.

I love my two girls - 18 and 23 - more than I can explain. If you have children, I will love them too.

I feel that the best way to get to know someone is by spending time together. It seems that a lot of people just want instant gratification, whatever that may be for them. That is not for me. I am emotionally available and committed to take the time necessary to form a new, lasting relationship.

I like to cook, but I do not do it very much now-a-days because I find cooking for one to be unrewarding, to say the least.

I am traveled, educated and successful in the things that count. I am told that I am somewhat articulate, especially when I have a thesaurus nearby. I am definitely a gentleman and believe firmly in treating a lady as my grandmother and mother taught me to: with courtesy, kindness and respect.

Some Frequently Asked Questions
1. Are your pictures current? Yes, they are. I have put a date on each picture so you can see how old they are.
2. Is that your real hair? Yes, it is all mine. No, I do not dye it.
3. How much do you weight? About 185lbs. I'm 5' 10". My BMI is about 25.
4. Do you plan on getting married? Yes. But only to complete an otherwise fulfilling relationship, not visa versa.
5. How long have you been divorced? About 8 years.
6. How long were you married. About 18 years.
7. Are you really 56? Yes, I was born in 1957.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Performing arts, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

scuba diving, snorkeling, walking in torrey pines, going to the movies, watching dvds, prowling tiny bookstores (so few left) for mystery novels, people watching, writing things in all lower-case letters

Favorite hot spots:

Catalina, the Sequoias, Amsterdam, London, Washington D.C. (museums!), Sedona, anywhere with good chocolate (dark). A good book.

Favorite things:

making pancakes, van Gogh, Picasso, Dali, spicy food, the air after it rains, sea lions, biographies, Santana, Tony Bennett, Simply Red, David Bowie, The Beatles, John Donne, Emily Dickinson, the Coen brothers, TED, dark chocolate and red wine.

Last read:

The Forever War, New York Times, Slate, Pygmalion, the wrapper on a piece of dark chocolate.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference
Income:
$150,001+
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Middle Eastern, White / Caucasian

My heritage requires that I consume dark chocolate whenever the opportunity arises.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

... which means, by definition, I am spiritual, not religious too. Or not. It's a Zen thing.

Languages:
Dutch, English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I am an engineer and I have an MBA. I have done post-graduate studies of chocolate and red wine.

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