I am a very laid back person now after my injury, I cannot do a lot of the crazy things i used to do. Now with 2 metal rods in my neck, it is too dangerous. Going out and partying isnt my thing anymore either, do to medication I have to take for my nerve damage. I am looking for a mature woman, that isnt looking to go out and party all the time and hang downtown with all the little kids. Maybe someone who has developed a profession or a person that is not looking for hand outs. My injury may never heal so any RNs ;) lol.