What am I? I'm a big kid who believes that is what you're doing doesn't make you happy -- keep trying new things til you find what does. I believe that no one lies on their death bed saying "I wish I spent more time at work". I'm a computer professional that works hard at work, but leaves it there when I go home. Relationships are ( or at least should be) based in honesty, trust, friendship, attraction ( of course), happiness ( both yours and you desire to make you mate ( Ugh awful word) happy. I would want to find someone active. I have an offbeat sense of humor -- sometimes getting a groan from a joke is as good as a laugh. I love to tell stories, sometimes I think I have too many -- nah! Sorry, I'm not Mel Gibson, nor would I want to be. I like what I am, that's a good trick in itself. It would be nice to find someone that likes themselves, but not too much :) I get the feeling from reading some of these that I'm supposed to look like Mel Gibson with Bill Gates money. I've been told I look like every comedian going Bill Murray, John Cleese, Dan Ackroyd, Chevy Chase, etc --I think it's more a personality match than a look-alike thing. Sometime I think I should have tried stand up comedy. Who knows maybe some guy would be writing in a personal ad that he's sorry he doesn't look like me -- IT COULD HAPPEN!I'd like to find someone honest with a positive attitude about life. Someone that loves to smile, loves to laugh loves to live life, not watch it go by. Someone who is serious enough to care about what's important, and silly enough to play in the mud. Someone that I am attracted to, and will be a friend when I need one. Spontaneous, happy, energetic, fun.