It may be a cliche, but my strongest trait is my sense of humor. If I can make you laugh, if I can add even just the smallest of lightness on an otherwise dreary day, then I feel I've done my job. I'm also very loyal; my closest friends I've had since grade school. If you're there for me, you better believe I will always be there for you. I consider myself a creative force, feeding off the creative energy of others and returning it in kind. As a writer I value the time I have to myself, but that only heightens the experience of spending time with others.
I'm not always comfortable in situations where I don't know anybody; I can appear to be introverted, or the ever-dreaded shy, but in the right environment I can be the life of the party, if that's what's needed. If I'm out with people, I'll generally try and make sure they have a good time. If that means a lamp shade has to get involved, so be it.
I think it's important to have a lot in common with someone, but only to an extent. I'd like to find someone that shares my passion for watching football, taking in a movie, or simply having a nice, intimate dinner, but I also want to find someone who can introduce me to new experiences, to get me to see and do things I'd never simply do on my own.
My perfect match is a woman who can stimulate me physically, intellectually, emotionally, and creatively. Physical attraction is a must, but that's just the surface. Can you challenge and enlighten me intellectually? Can you connect with me emotionally? Can you instill within me the drive to be creative? I will keep looking until I find you.