I read these words in Uncle Kracker's song Smile and thought that it describes exactly who I'm looking for......."You make me smile like the sun
Fall out of bed, sing like bird
Dizzy in my head, spin like a record
Crazy on a Sunday night
You make me dance like a fool
Forget how to breathe
Shine like gold, buzz like a bee
Just the thought of you can drive me wild
Ohh, you make me smile"
"Strong, muscular, ruggedly good looking, with a smile that can make me melt, a killer mustache/goatee, self assured adventure seeker with a zest for life that can not be contained and a sense of humor that gives me belly laughs." I guess the good guy I'm really looking for hasn't relinquished his inner bad boy or zest for life. The connection between us would be nothing short of amazing, making whatever we pursue together worth it. He's younger looking, physically fit (sorry no extra pounds) financially stable, accomplished, confident not cocky, values honesty and integrity and recognizes the importance of friendships. He knows that communication is key to a relationship, intimacy is vital and for anything to flourish it needs nurtured....including relationships. My ideal mate is someone who also has finished raising children.
I'm smart, witty, funny, with self-deprecating humor at times. I laugh freely and often. I'm honest, strong willed, compassionate as well as passionate in everything that I do, energetic, younger looking(often told I look to be in my early forties), fun to be around, and try not to take myself too seriously. I'm easy going with a down to earth personality that seems to be my charm. I'm at a place in my life that I truly like who I am.
24 yrs married, this is the last place I envisioned myself being. But, as we all know by now, life has no guarantees. I don't accept a lot of requests for dates because quite frankly I'm looking for that one soul that connects with mine. I'm not looking for a pen pal. If you date a lot. I'd rather be the one to pass you by.
I don't want to rob any cradles, but I am looking for someone my age who has not lost his virility, vitality and vigor. Romance, passion and intimacy still rank really high with me...that is... in a committed relationship.
I like adventure and spontaneity, sometimes the best memories happen that way. In short life is too short not to have fun!!
My pics on the Harley, taken in Nashville July 09.
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