I have an excellent sense of humor. So many things make me smile. Laughing is such a great feeling and I like to share it with others. I am looking for someone with a good sense of humor, someone that can keep up with me (apparently its hard...). I loathe arrogance, but self-confidence is a turn-on. For some reason I always attract and am attracted to bad boys, maybe its that I have a rebellious soul, I'm not sure. I can be wild and crazy-fun at times, and surprisingly intelligent as well. I am far more intelligent than I look. I enjoy intelligent conversation and would like to find others to expand my perspective on the world.
What do I like to do for fun? I'm glad you asked! I enjoy hitting the bar and dancing my ass off to let loose when I can, although it happens rarely anymore. Other than that I enjoy watching movies, writing, reading, enjoying nature, chilling with friends... where ever, doing whatever. I don't like planning things... I enjoy spontaneity, but appreciate that others do not. I can find the fun in anything, anywhere. I love going on random adventures, whatever they may be. In the summer I like to hang at the beach, I love the water, the sand and the sun.
I think everyone needs ambition in their life, I don't know how a person can go through life without it. I am career-focused and have big ambitions in life, but strive to find a balance. Ambition is very attractive in a partner. So is passion. I don't care what career you have, if you love it and put everything you've got into it, than that is brilliant... bonus points. A good work ethic is also attractive.
I like tattoos and piercings. I have a few tattoos and plan to get more. When most people find out that I have multiple tattoos they don't believe me because they are well-hidden so as to maintain a professional appearance at work. Tattoos on a partner is HOT, same with well-defined muscles... but not necessarily a must. I look for personality in a partner, charisma. I want someone that can challenge me and keep me guessing.
I have a voracious curiosity about life and the world, the Universe... I love debates and stimulating conversation.
I love kids! Children are magical little creatures... the essence of life. Ideally my partner would be good with kids... but I am willing to train. I am very out-going, and can talk to pretty much anyone about anything. I'm a well socially-adjusted and perceptive person, I know what's going on and don't really care much about what people think of me. I can be blunt at times, I'm a no bull-crap kind of person, but most of the time I have tact. I just happen to know what I want and what my opinions are. I can be obstreperous at times, but strive to remain sensitive and polite. I am certainly not looking for a completely submissive person, that is a complete turn-off. I do try my best to remain open to the fact that we can't actually truly know anything that we know, that it's all just our minds tricking us into believing ourselves... (my Ethics teacher from University has had a lasting effect on me... he was AWESOME) But we are all just doing the best that we can with what we have learned so far in this life.
I also think that lying is one of the worst things a person can do to one another. If you have something to hide then what's the point?! I highly value honesty and integrity in a partner.
I am a very open person, pretty much nothing phases me anymore. Compassion is what I do in life. It's my career and what I live by. I have a kind heart and good soul, sometimes people take advantage of that, but I still have the idea in my head that people are generally good, even when they do bad things.
I am here to see what happens. To expand my social circle. To meet men that are more at my level and to meet a person that's worthy of getting everything I have to give. Ultimately I am looking for a long-term relationship, but look forward to meeting interesting people along the way.