i am 31 years old, was born in new jersey and lived in New York till i was 10 then my family moved us to Maine until i moved myself back to New York for a better job. I am the oldest of five children and so i have been born into the childcare since i can babysit, i was the older sister and mothers helper. I love taking care of other peoples children but i would love to have some of my own some day. My job is demanding and it is better for me to meet someone online, i want to marry my best friend. I want be able to trust and not worry about anything but being happy with that person. He has to be romantic, funny, intelligent and know how to treat a woman. I am always told i am not like a lot of women, who like to play games and go around like my stuff don't stink. I would like to think i am like the girl next door, very laid back, go with the flow, caring, funny, adventurous. I could try and think of more things to put on here to get you to email me or to wink at me, but then we wouldn't have anything to talk about if we decided to chat, so if you think we could start something special then don't be afraid to let me know you are interested.