I am an independent, loving, single parent of 1. I am a career woman who is ready to settle down. I have a good heart with soulful eyes. I am an open book with nothing to hide. I'm not perfect and I don't expect my mate to be. I am not shallow, therefore I'm not caught up on outward beauty because it fades with time. I want to know your HEART. LOVE can last forever. I want that once in a lifetime love. I am seeking a GOD fearing, loving, secure BLACK man. I have spent the majority of my life in interracial relationships due to insecurity. I'm at a point in my life where I choose to be beside a BLACK man. I am looking for someone to share my dreams and aspirations with. Someone passionate yet not afraid of intimacy and comfortable with their own sexuality. Loving me will test the erotically romantic male. My mate must be wanting a monogamous, serious, long-term relationship that is conducive to both our needs that will eclipse any obstacle or challenge that comes our way. Relationships take hardwork..