I have a giving heart, and a very loving heart almost to a fault. I am a communicator, and I speak the truth at all times, so if you don't want to know please don't ask me because I WILL tell you the truth. I am very understanding and I think it is very important for one to know just because it might not be important to me, does not mean that it is not important to someone else. I have a love for God, although I do not attend regular services I pray regularly, and thank God for everything that I have been blessed with. I have learned many things in my journey and I think the most important things to me are the little things in life..I love it here in Texas and don't think that I would ever have a desire to move out of the State. I enjoy back yard BB Q's to riding 4 wheelers with my friends, camping, trips to tropical destinations.. I love the beach or a nice lake. I enjoy road trips and sometimes like to get in my car for a nice drive to where ever my car takes me, and I really enjoy those meaningless drives with someone special. love the Hill Country.. I would love to one day have a nice place in the country, a place to go to enjoy nature and make lots of memories with someone special, friends and family. I love Christmas and holidays any reason to bring family and friends together...I go to the gym at least 3-4 times a week. I am not really trying to lose weight, only tone my body and keep in good shape. I feel great! I believe that people that play together stay together. (not every waking moment of course but you know what I mean) It is of no surprise why I am single today.. it is not because I can't find a date or anything of such.. It is because I truly know what I need in my life and what I can not live with in my life... I think just knowing those things are half the battle.. I am at the point that I would like to meet the person to spend my life with. Someone who is in that same place in their lives..I will not settle and if there is something that is in the I can't live with I will communicate that with you and would hope that you would do the same... I am not opposed to someone who has kids or even small children ( I love the little people! ) but I should mention that I can not have any more children even if I wanted to... But I would certainly share in loving yours if you have any.... I am an Independent woman,However i am not overly independent.. I think that everything takes a good balance... I am a pretty simple person buy still complex... ha! you will have to see for yourself... I am happy where ever I am... I have gone through many challenges in my life..it has made me who I am today.. and I am very happy with me. I would rather not be in a bar all of the time but do enjoy going from time to time.. I love music of all kinds my fav being Country ( i love to dance ) or classic rock. Family is important to me.. I love my kiddos and they have been the focus of my life. They are 21, 19 and 16. my two oldest do not live at home any longer and my youngest just moved with her dad.. it is only fair i guess that we both get to share in seeing them grow up... (really hard for me at first but I am learning to let them spread their wings and fly) What I am looking for in a man.. honest, loyal, has a love for god, respectful, thoughtful and is able to communicate.understanding and caring and must like to have fun, smile and laugh...happy with who he is (none of us are perfect so be happy with all that you have to offer)laid back, but still can have fun no matter what we are doing. Someone that completes me... He would be handsome ( handsome to me ) beauty is in the eye of the beholder... he would love me for who I am and accept all of my flaws because I am worth it... you won't be disappointed.. Send me a message if you might think we are a good match! Good Luck!