I've been with some of the most AMAZING women in my life and I am glad to have met them all...and I'm definitely looking forward to meeting some more great women and, perhaps, that special ONE! I am open, able, and looking for something more.
I'm looking for a girl who has as much humor and confidence as I do! Hopefully, that's you!. Ambition, confidence, sense of humor, intelligence and affection are a must! Not to worry, I don't ask for what I'm not willing to give!
I'm not looking for someone "perfect." Someone intent on finding perfection is bound to be disappointed. But please, if you look like a Chihuahua or the like, it probably wouldn't workout for us.
Are you genuine, passionate, sensual and love lots of affection? I'll pick you up when you're down but I don't want to have to carry you every step of the way. You have to be able to stand on your own two feet first, before you can fly with me.
My ideal woman desires masculinity and yearns for a man who can definitely lead. She's compassionate, authentic, easy going, my partner in crime, good in her own skin and has a strong sense of self worth! She knows what she wants and is smart enough to go about getting it...
For me, it's all about chemistry, trust, playful banter, mutually earned respect, building something that lasts and doing our best to meet each others needs.
But, I know from experience and scientifically-valid astrological textbooks (lol) that certain character traits and behaviors are like signal flares of a drama-prone incompatible relationship. If a girl jumps on top of a bar to dance for an appreciative audience on our first date I know she will be a poor choice for a girlfriend but a great ride for a torrid fling.
To any girl I meet: when I strike up a conversation with you this is what is going through the back of my head:
Don't be that girl…
… who thinks diamonds are a better best friend than a dog
… who lost touch with her femininity
… who has given up on love
… who pretends she can play like a boy
… who flakes
… who knows what she wants a little too surely
… who is an attention wh#e
… who is practiced in the art of aloofness and indifference (that’s my job)
… who cannot handle teasing
… who has sexual hang ups
… who cannot take a sincere compliment
… who has lost her joie de vivre
… who doesn't understand that men and women complement, not compete with, each other
… who re-applies her make-up every 10 minutes
… with daddy issues
… who doesn't at least reach for the check
… who likes being a trophy a little too much
… who reads between every line
… who curses and flips the bird a lot
… who uses too much trendy slang
… who will accept flirting from other men while we are out on a date
… who mugs for invisible cameras
… who is externally validated
This may seem like an exhaustive list, but compared to the lists of demands I occasionally read on here from the sorts of women who'd be happier in love if they paid for it, I don't think I'm asking for much.
Lastly, I adore chatting with women about love and life and I have a soft spot for women that are not only gorgeous but have the intelligence to at least carry a fun conversation. I do understand that I am selective, but I figure...why not? I think I totally deserve someone great. Don’t you deserve the same?
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