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32 year old man
Sherman Oaks, California, United States

women 23-28
25 Miles of Encino, California, United States
Never Married
Have kids:
Want kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
6'3" (190cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker



In a recent press release, my downstairs neighbor declared that banging pots and pans around at 3 in the morning is an act of neighborly diplomacy.

"If I know Mary Samsonite, she'll invite us right in for tea and strumpets!" If you think either of these sentences was funny or interesting (or if you remember laughing at the quote), read on.

Wit is beautiful! Entertaining wordplay and fun verbal fencing are a must. If you are a master of subtext and a wizard (witch?) of conversational nuance, and you want a man who savors that, you know what you should do?? (Hmm?) You should wait! (What?)

Send me a wink or a Like if you wish, but no need to message me. If you look at my profile, I promise I will look at yours. If I think we might have stuff to discuss, you will hear from me. :) I would rather be the man and message you first.

I like to be active. It would be nice if we have that in common. I don't care if you're curvy or waify or athletic and toned, an active lifestyle is a sexy thing. :)

I believe in a higher power. We don't have to share the same beliefs, but it would be nice if you have at least thought about what you believe in (or don't believe in).

I respect women, and plan on being with a woman who respects men.

I enjoy hot yoga, even though I don't get to do it that often.
It is magic.

Tattoos and piercings are okay with me. I don't have any, no plans to get any, but yours are just fine and I'm sure I will appreciate them if you have them.

I like to travel, you like to travel, we all like to travel...and eat ice cream. :) Where would you like to go? I'd like to go to Spain, Barbados, Italy (again!), Japan, Australia/New Zealand/Great Barrier Reef, Argentina, back to Kenya and Ethiopia, and see the rest of the US.

Are you an Awesomologist? We have something in common. :)

No need to message me first. Visit my profile, send me a wink if you like, give me a good rating, whatever you wish. I can do the part that men have always done since the caveman days, ever since Og sent Oga a StoneTabletBook message that said "Dinner on Thursday? :)" Let me do the man thing and message you first.

If you're thinking of winking, or you already got a message from me, respond if:

-You actually have questions to ask or something to say in your message. If you respond and only answer my questions and don't say anything else, doesn't that mean there's nothing else for us to talk about? :)

(By the way, this is also true of your profile. A little free advice about us fellas: If you're tired of getting messages that only say "your hot", make sure your profile has some conversation starters. Here are some examples of things that are *not* conversation starters:

-Living life to the fullest
-I love to travel (Unless you list specifics.)
-I love music!/movies!/TV! (Again, specifics.)
-On Friday night I am out with my friends! (Where?)
-Anything involving the words Live, Laugh, Love. Cute? It is. Conversation starter? It is not.

Anyway, advice column done. I only want the best for you and for you to get fewer stupid messages. Not trying to be a jerk.

So! Please do reply to my message (or favorite or wink if you'd like me to look a little quicker) if:

-You want a guy who knows what he wants.

-You want a guy who knows what he's doing with his life.

-Def message me if you know what an ENTJ is. You are messaging one. :)

-Def message me if you can spell Laphroaig correctly.

-You laugh a lot at movies where British people are dry with each other. (Anything directed by Guy Ritchie or any Hugh Grant R-rated comedies come to mind.)

-You see at least some good in saving money.

-You want a guy who will make you laugh, and laugh at himself, and you can make that guy laugh too...until we're 100 years old on our rocking chairs on the front porch. Let's not pretend we got on Match to find crappy romance, hmm? ;)

Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Football, Golf, Dancing, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pet Essay:

I had a golden retriever in college, and dogs are my favorite pets in general. I really love all kinds of animals and would be happy to rescue a pet (especially a dog), but not until I live in a place that allows pets.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Don't display my sign
Rice University, Houston, TX
For fun:

When I'm with another person, I'm all about adventures. When I'm by myself, I like to do all kinds of puzzles (jigsaw and others), play games, watch TV and movies, and cook.

Favorite hot spots:

Depends on the day. I like nice lounges like Firefly but I also like cheap margaritas pretty much anywhere. As long as the place isn't snotty or Sceney, I can probably be talked into it.

Favorite things:

250 characters for favorites? Lame. I'll put two of each.

Books: It, Princess Bride.

Movies: Lord of the Rings, Tropic Thunder, Bruce Almighty (3 here lol)

Music: Hollywood Undead, John Williams

TV: Breaking Bad, The Wire, Modern Family

Last read:

11/22/63, Doctor Sleep

6'3" (190cms)
5'5" (165cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Dark blonde
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum, Bald
No Way
No Way, Occasionally
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Other profession
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

I'm a film producer and screenwriter.

$100,001 to $150,000
Less Than $25,000, $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Want kids:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Christian / Protestant
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
English, Spanish
Graduate degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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