I'm Ben: pretty friendly, open-minded, a guy who's hoping to meet someone that likes geeking out and is more than able to have fun while doing so. i get kinda chatty when I write, but since I'd like to have some stuff for people to ask questions and start a conversation over, I'll try to hold back a bit.
I am a details kind of guy and would prefer to be thought of as the man with the plan, but you can't anticipate everything, so if things don't go as planned, adapting to go with the flow rather than sweat it is what I prefer. I'm happy to try the new and different, but am also fine with those less outgoing who may prefer something more comfortable and familair to themselves. Either way, if you want someone to share an experience with, I'm open to making it so.
I'd like to get the most out of life and I'm all for sharing it with someone who wants to live it to the fullest as well! A girl who is sweet, patient, compassionate and understanding, but has no problem standing up for her beliefs and can provide a certain challenge that makes for a healthy relationship. I like a girl who I can share a laugh with and make laugh, as well as get serious when needed and confide in and console during harder times. A person who is able to complete me and I to her on an emotional, intellectual and spiritual level. Someone who can be independent and doesn't always rely on others to get things done, but will still be happy to accept help is always good. Someone who understands chivalry and finds value on those who act by it. A person who likes to go for the extravagant once in a while, but knows the importance of enjoying the simple things in life.
I'll be honest about something though; there are times I might be considered a bit of a nerd. Comic books? Video games? Anime? It's not all that I'm about, but I'd be lying if i said it wasn't a significant part of my interests. I'm not ashamed though; in fact I rather embrace the idea and someone who goes for this! If there's one thing I haven't done yet to complete my geek factor, its going to a larger size convention for this stuff. But with Tekkoshocon coming up soon, I hope to change that, and maybe find that there's a good counterpart who's hoping for the same kind of person too!
So that's pretty much all I've got to say about me for the moment. Like what you see? Want to know more? Just give me a bit of a nudge and a wink to clue me in, and I'll be more than happy to reply and see where it goes from here!